Ok, so i just realized that I have been complaining like a bitch about work. It's not that bad just I don't know how to explain it. Im alone most times and all I do is call people who at most are gracious but dont give me what I want. Anyhoo, I made a promise to myself to not complain today. Instead i decided to disscuss a certain topic that was brought to mind but none other than Dibly. It's about falling in love.
Dibly I consider you lucky because you were still falling in love. You havent fallen in love yet. Yes, love hurts but that's just how one person deals with it. At a certain point in life you have to realize how much time and suffering are you going to endure for someone who has already moved on or was never in the same wave length with you?
From personal experience, I wasted yes wasted seven years for a guy! And it wasnt all for nothing, we ended up friends but what I'm trying to say is that a person can be led on for years before coming to their own realization. It took me months to get over him, then thankfully I met my husband. And that will be another post.
All Im saying is that how much pain can one person endure? How much time are you willing to waste? The other party isnt going to turn around and suddenly say " gosh, why did I let him/her go?" Yes maybe that happens but not all the time and most times we get burned. It hurts but we have to pick ourselves up and find other people, or if you're really in a rut go out with friends and bitch about the person who dumped you (trust me, hearing how awful they are helps).
The worst part is often you blame yourself, and yes that may be the reason sometimes but you have to understand that not every pain is your fault. Not all tears were meant for you. Coming to terms with the fact that you are a better person for moving on is the hardest part in heartbreak. Don't beat yourself for being hurt, pat yourself at the back! You were given a reason to start new.
Am I talking gibberish again oh well, I dont normally do long posts and I dont consider this to be a long post but whatever. Hope this sheds some light Dibly.
"I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink, but he whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves his conduct, will pursue his principles unto death." Thomas Paine
Posted by Belladonna at 6:26 PM
